Are you living and loving in the way you truly desire?

Do you often feel stuck in your head or disconnected from your own body, unable to be with the fullness of sensation and experiences?

Are you searching for a deeper erotic connection to yourself and your partner(s)?

Do you have a sense that something is missing from your (sex) life and you are looking for more?

Maybe you are looking for assistance in the lifelong process of understanding who you are, what you need, and what you have to give to yourself, others, and the world.

Maybe you consider yourself spiritually oriented or are interested in a sacred approach to gender, sexuality, and/or eroticism.


If you are looking to enhance or better understand your own experience of sexuality, embodiment, desires, or spirituality we may be a great match.

Through fully embracing our own erotic experiences of satisfaction and pleasure we are given access to our deeper and whole Self.

Experience Deep Connection

Conscious Pleasure is trauma-knowledgeable, heart-centered, therapeutic coaching for adults of all genders, sizes, sexualities, spiritualities, and relationship statuses who are struggling with sexuality, identity, or intimacy and who long to be seen. I create public and private workshops and work in private sessions with individuals and couples who span the gender, sexuality, and religious spectra. I work with transgender, non-binary, and cisgender people; with gay, straight, bisexual, pansexual, and asexual people; with pagans, atheists, and theists; with people struggling to accept their own bodies.

I find my clients are looking for support and guidance to experience a greater depth of pleasure and a more whole version of themselves and their sex/life!

Sessions are usually a blend of therapeutic talking/mind-based interaction, body-based/embodiment exercises, and/or educational-therapeutic touch. The session experience is completely dependent upon your goals and comfort, and focused on increasing your experience of embodiment and intimacy with yourself, others, and the world.

My approach is based on the work I did for my Master's degree in Sacred Erotic Psychology, certifications in Sexological Bodywork (CSB), Clinical Trauma Professional (CCTP), and Transpersonal Hypnotherapy, as well as numerous hours of work with clients and with myself. I have extensive knowledge of and personal experience with trauma, queer / lgbpa+ and trans/non-binary experiences, kink/bdsm, polyamory/non-monogamy, and more.

I am unapologetically and radically queer, trans-inclusive, consent-based, sex-positive, feminist, anti-oppressive, trauma-informed, kink-knowledgeable, poly-normative, and non-appropriative in my values. I recognize these values are ideals to continuously strive toward and I desire to create a safer space based upon these ideals. I also recognize that I may fall short of these ideals, and will always welcome feedback on how I can do better.

“Perhaps all the dragons in our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us act, just once, with beauty and courage. Perhaps everything that frightens us is, in its deepest essence, something helpless that wants our love.”

Rainer Maria Rilke
Note: All of my clients are legal adults (at least 18 years of age).
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